Hey to my friends. Sometimes i may not be there for you when you are sad or down. So let me say a word of sorry. But hope that this blog can help and encourage you in dealing problems and challenges.
Actually in life, there is no one, not a single one who doesn't go through the hardest time in their life. Everyone have to face something. May be peer pressure, rejection,worries,and lots of stuff. Even as a teenager we have to face problems.I know i am starting to be preachy but just advising you base on my experience for 17 years. I have or am going through my hardest time of my life. Studies, family and commitments to be made. I know how it feels when you face a problem and you feel so lonely and you are the only one that is facing it. No one is there for you or you may feel no one understands you. But remember there are people out there who may face even worse situations than you. Even the people in Africa, they are having a shortage of food. They have to suffer. Look at their bodies, thin and lack of nutrition. But do they have the chance to complain? NO!!!
Ways to deal with problems. (Actually i am not perfect. Not that i can deal with my problems easily. I am still learning and in life no matter what age we still have to learn something new. )Main thing, trust in God! Don't lose faith! Continue to go to church, read your bible and pray everyday! Think positive about yourself! Be happy and cheerful. When you wake up every morning, thank God for a brand new day and pray to God that whatever challenges or anything that you have to face, you surrender it to God! A joyful heart is always a good medicine. Continue to be yourself. If you want others to love and trust you, first you have to love and trust yourself. Be happy of the way you are! You may not be as pretty as the girl in the magazine or having the sexiest body as the model you see on tv. You are you! And you are special! Trust in God that you can pull through all these problems! Don't blame God for what you are facing because all these are part of growing up to be a mature person in Christ!
Problems may seem to keep coming to you. You may think why am i facing all these problems? Why God why? Just treat a problem as something you have to learn! Just like last year, it was at the beginning of last year. God told me something.Some of you may know about it, some maybe not. Anyway i will tell you. I went as usual to school not expecting what would i learn that day. It was on friday and i have PJ. That day we have to do 'lari berpagar'. 'Lari berpagar' is a really hard thing to do. You got to know when to jump, how far to stretch your legs, because if you jump too early or too late, the pagar will fall instead. So i jump. No matter how many times i tried, i only manage to jump 1 pagar. In 1 round there are about 5-6 pagars but all i manage to do was only 1. And i look around there are so many girls that are better than me, they manage to go through many rounds. But me not even 1 round. It really disappoint me. Worse there was a girl who hurt herself that worries me even more. In all my frustation and worries, God told me something really important. In life there are many challenges and boundaries to go through. The pagar represents the challenges to go through. It keeps coming but you got to know the right way to face and deal with it! Some people can easily go through it, but some no matter how hard they try, they fail. It is also part of building the faith. But to trust and surrender everything to God, NOTHING IS IMPOSSIBLE WITH GOD! Always remember.
He knows what you are facing. Every tear you cry is precious in His eyes. So always remember YOU ARE NOT ALONE!
This is really long but i hope it can help anyone of you. God bless! Continue to trust in God always!
Oh ya to my christian friends out there, worship helps. Listening to christian songs can make you feel much better! So if you have songs in your computer, don't hestitate to on the songs. Worship God and pray!
This reminds me of 2 songs Mighty to save and Still
Mighty to save
Chorus:
Saviour He can move the mountains
My God is mighty to save
He is mighty to save
Forever Author of salvation
He rose and conquer the grave
Jesus conquer the grave
Still
Hide me now under Your wings
Cover me within Your mighty hands
Chorus
When the oceans rise and thunders roar
I will soar with You above the storms
Father You are King over the floods
I will be still know You are God
Find rest my soul in Christ alone
Know His power in quietness and trust
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